Yesterday I wrote about the Red (family) side of Orange. Today I’ll write about the Yellow (Church) side of Orange. In the image I posted yesterday, you can see the initiatives we have for children at Community Christian Church. Those primarily include our children’s environments, Baby Bay, Kids Kove & Discovery Island.
The key to those environments is not what you might think, however. It’s not the programming, the decor, or the fun games. The key is the relationships with the leaders and other children. At the Orange Tour a couple weeks ago, Sue Miller made the important statement that children do not learn when they are afraid or nervous. Like people of all ages, they learn best when they are in community and feel welcomed, loved, and known. The fun games, the great looking environments, the amazing productions and all of that are a huge part of helping those kids feel welcomed and engaged. But all of that is done with the purpose of preparing kids to have a great small group experience.
It is in the context of small groups, or more generally the relationships between leaders and children, where children have the best shot at growing spiritually. As churches, we need to pour a ton of time, effort and resources into making community, or small groups (or however you do it) as successful as possible.
In our elementary environment (Discovery Island), we intentionally worked hard over a year ago to make our small groups better and it has paid off in big ways. Kids are connected more to the kids in their group and their leader. Leaders are investing in the families outside of Sunday morning. Relationships between parents and small group leaders are growing. Most importantly, children know they are loved by God and there is somebody else cheering for them in life.
It was interesting because when summer came, and volunteers had some time off, kids really missed seeing their regular small group leaders. This is nothing new. Relationships have always been, and will always be the most important thing. The child’s relationship with God, with their parents, with their friends and with adults who are investing in them saying the same things parents are saying.

