Orange Conference Tips for Those Attending or Experiencing From Home #oc12 #thinkorange

Orange Conference 2012I’m headed to the Orange Conference with 7 other folks from our church and 2 leaders from a church plant we’re connected with. Orange is a conference for family ministry teams and senior leadership in churches. About 5000 people will be attending. The conference is Wed-Fri this week and I figured I’d share some tips for getting the most out of the conference whether you’re there or experiencing it from home.

For Both (There or At Home)

  • Follow along on Twitter. It’s worth creating an account if you don’t have one. Tons of people will share quotes, thoughts and experiences while using the hashtag #OC12. You can Create A List that will show all tweets with the #OC12 hashtag. You may even want to use a Twitter application like TweetDeck.
  • Interact with people on Twitter and ask them questions or share thoughts. Sure, it’s a little odd “talking” to someone you don’t know but it’s a great way to learn and connect with other leaders. Don’t give them your bank account info though. The Twitter lingo for addressing someone on Twitter is an @reply.
  • Follow the Orange Bloggers. This is a group of people of which I’m thankful to be part of. We all blog about our Orange Conference experience and we come from a variety of backgrounds and perspectives. You can see the full list here, and you may want to subscribe to some blogs to get updates. Most will be like mine, providing a link/image where you can subscribe by email or through RSS.
  • Comment on blog posts to ask questions and interact.

If You’re At Home

  • Tune into www.OrangeLeaders.com for some great content. You’ll get to see the opening session live, as well as the Family Experience Showcase on Thursday night and a ton of interviews with great leaders as well. Get more details here.
  • Be sure to record ideas and thoughts you have as you read blogs, follow tweets and watch on OrangeLeaders.com. Think about how what you’re learning can apply to you and your ministry and write down some action items to pursue next week.

If You’re Attending

  • Take great notes but also think about 1-3 key steps you want to take coming out of each main session or workshop. It might be an idea to implement, a book to read, a meeting to schedule, a strategy to evaluate, or anything that will help you put what you’re learning into action.
  • Talk to other leaders and learn from them. This is usually one of my favorite parts of the conference. The lounge on the second floor is a great place to network.
  • Talk to the exhibitors and sponsors. Most of them exist to serve the Church and have great things that might be helpful in your ministry.
  • Find your Orange Specialists and get to know them. They are in place to help you with Orange strategy and curriculum and have a broad base of experience and knowledge.
  • If you have one or more people from your team with you, find time to share your experiences. Like most conferences, it can be hectic so you have to find ways to share as well as rest and relax.

Also, don’t forget to HAVE FUN!

What would you add?

The Children’s Ministry and Student Ministry Curriculum We Use and Why

At Community Christian Church we use curriculum from Orange for our Preschool, Elementary and Student ministry environments. Below is an overview of each and why we use Orange. Orange did not pay me to write this, which is a moot point since I would only promote something I really think is helpful.

First Look – Preschool

First Look helps preschoolers have a lasting understanding of these 3 things:

  1. God Made Me.
  2. God Loves Me.
  3. Jesus wants to be my friend forever.

252 Basics – Elementary

252 Basics (from Luke 2:52) helps elementary-aged kids have a lasting understanding of these 3 things:

  1. I need to make the wise choice.
  2. I should treat others the way I want to be treated.
  3. I can trust God no matter what.

XP3 – Students

XP3 is designed as a comprehensive student curriculum that helps students experience their faith in three areas. Wonder. Discovery. Passion. (hence eXPerience 3)

  • WONDER: I am created to pursue an authentic relationship with my Creator.
  • DISCOVERY: I belong to Jesus Christ and define who I am by what He says.
  • PASSION: I exist every day to demonstrate God’s love to a broken world.

Reasons I Love Orange Curriculum

(in no particular order)

  • It’s all about Jesus, the gospel, how God loves us and how Jesus showed us how to live.
  • Every week is based on strong teaching from the Bible.
  • The goal of the curriculum is not to teach the entire Bible, but to teach children & students the most important parts that relate to their life (kind of like Jesus did most of the time).
  • It’s built on these core foundations:
    • Small groups.
    • Partnering with parents.
    • Having one, synchronized family ministry strategy.
    • Discipleship is as much about serving as anything else.
  • It’s extremely cost-effective.
  • I know a ton of people who work there and they’re great servants, leaders, thinkers and creatives.
  • There’s more than enough content each week and you can customize it for your needs.
  • It’s relevant to the age groups and isn’t written years in advance.
  • The graphics and media are excellent.
  • There are supporting resources for just about everything (training volunteers, communicating to parents, events, etc).
  • They are kingdom-minded and what the Church to thrive.
  • They are always evaluating and improving.
  • We have used it for over 6 years and have seen great benefits and hear tons of amazing stories because of it.

I’ll stop there since many of you probably stopped reading already. If you made it this far, I have a page on my site about key questions to answer when choosing curriculum that might be helpful to you.

10 Statements that Shape My Personal Mission – Inspired by @tonymorganlive

Tony Morgan wrote a post about 10 statements that shape his personal mission. At the end he asked what would be on our list. So, here’s my response to that excellent question. Unfortunately I know I won’t remember all the key ones that have stuck with me.

Oh, and my personal mission is to serve churches to help them reach their full potential.

  1. “The Church should not make it difficult for people who are turning to God.” – my version of the wise words of James the apostle in Acts 15:19
  2. “The local church is the hope of the world.” – Bill Hybels
  3. “Systems create behaviors.” – Andy Stanley
  4. “Nobody cares about how much you know, until they know how much you care.” – I heard it from John Maxwell, most likely originated with Theodore Roosevelt.
  5. “Your friends determine the direction and quality of your life.” – This one I adapt to be “Your key leaders will determine the effectiveness and quality of your ministry.” – The original being from Andy Stanley, a great Bible truth he teaches to students.
  6. “To reach people no one else is reaching we must do things no one else is doing.” – Craig Groeschel
  7. “Don’t delegate responsibility. Delegate authority.” – Craig Groeschel
  8. “It’s the effectiveness of your strategy, not the scope of your mission, that ultimately determines your success.” – Reggie Joiner
  9. “Leaders are learners.” I have no idea where I first heard this.
  10. “100 years from now the only thing that will matter is your relationship with God.” - Reggie Joiner

In writing this I’m reminded of how there are literally 20-30 key things I’ve learned, and memorized, from Andy Stanley over the years. I’ll do a separate post on those, but probably after the Orange Conference next week.

How about you? What key phrases or statements have played a big role in how you live?

Church Growth Barriers With a Family Ministry Perspective – Part 3

In the first post I talked about church growth barriers and my observations. In the second post I shared an article from Dan Reiland about the subject. In this post I’ll share an article from Tim Keller about church growth barriers and size cultures. Tim Keller is the founding pastor of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in Manhattan.

Click here to download and read Tim’s article about church sizes and barriers to growth.

Rather than add observations about different church sizes like I did in the previous two posts, I’ll share things that stood out to me from Tim’s article in general.

  • Tim states that two churches of completely different sizes may be more different than two similar-sized churches of different denominations. I agree.
  • Every church has a size culture and often times we view other size cultures as bad. i.e., I can’t known everyone (large church). There aren’t enough ministries (smaller church).
  • Our staff discussed this article (and the other one) and we believe attenders could benefit from reading it if they had issues with our church that were directly related to a size culture. Most people want the benefits of multiple church sizes and none of the weaknesses. For instance, I want to know the pastor personally but have great family ministry environments for my kids.
  • “The single best way to increase attendance is to multiply Sunday services.” Very interesting quote. Our church had 3 services at one point, went back to 2 balanced ones that held as many or more, but hit a growth stall until we added a 3rd service again. Tim is probably on to something here.
  • “The small church ‘gets away’ with amateurish quality because the key driving force is its intimacy, family-like warmth, and relationships.”
  • “Up to the ’800 barrier’ churches can still get away with having a mediocre or poor small group system.”
  • About the 800 barrier – “Staff members also must be increasingly gifted and able to not simply be ‘workers’ nor even ‘leaders of workers’ but ‘leaders of leaders.’ They must not need lots of mentoring themselves and must be able to attract and supervise others.”
  • “The larger the church, the more staff roles shift from “doing the job with guidance” to “making it happen”.”
  • “The larger the church, then, the more important to raise and train leaders from within.”
  • “Schaller says that the key to the very large church culture is trust.”

What stood out to you?

Church Growth Barriers With a Family Ministry Perspective – Part 2

In the first post I talked about church growth barriers and my observations as they relate to family ministry. In this post I’ll share an article from Dan Reiland along with family ministry observations. Dan Reiland is the Executive Pastor at 12Stone Church in Georgia with tons of experience in church leadership, coaching and consulting. I would highly recommend you subscribe to his blog if you’re in church leadership.

Click here to download and read Dan’s article called Breakthrough Catalysts about church growth barriers.

Dan identifies what he sees as the most important thing to break through each barrier. I’ll share my notes as they relate to family ministry.

  • 0-200 – Pastor
    • Any church that’s having a regular gathering needs children’s ministry. Enlist a great volunteer to lead the ministry and the volunteers. Like the Pastor, the children’s ministry leader should be a people-person who attracts others and helps them connect.
  • 200-400 – Organization
    • Children’s ministry should be divided into preschool and elementary, with systems and processes being created for how to pull off both each weekend. Creating and documenting systems and processes allows you to bring on volunteers and give them responsibility and authority.
    • Student ministry probably consists of small groups and probably does not need great organization but plans should be made to move to a more organized format.
  • 400-800 – Staff
    • Children’s ministry and student ministry staff must recruit, organize and equip volunteers like Dan describes.
    • Volunteers should have larger leadership roles and staff should primarily pour into them.
    • Large group environments need to be well executed.
  • 800-1200 – Vision
    • Families should see a unified family ministry with a clear vision of what is offered for families and how families can partner with the church.
    • Vision should be regularly cast to all volunteers. This is always important but as churches get to this size it is easy for vision to get lost or not communicated at every level.
  • 1200-1800 – Communication
    • All communicators/teachers in every large group environment should be gifted and strong.
    • Communication with families about children’s ministry and student ministry will happen through other avenues and it should be reliable, consistent and clear.
    • Small group leaders should be the primary connection for parents as few of them would even know staff in a church this size.
  • 1800-2400 – Staff
    • All family ministry staff should be leaders of leaders.
    • A good system of leadership structure and development will help churches identify future staff from the volunteer base where people are already leading in a big way.
  • 2400-3000 – Execution
    • Staff have to work hard to ensure everyone is cared for and new folks can easily get connected despite the large number of attenders.
    • Systems have to be in place to be able to get feedback from all levels of the organization.

What do you think? How can Dan’s article help your church?

Church Growth Barriers With a Family Ministry Perspective – Part 1

Church growth barriers are a commonly talked about issue in the local church and church leaders are always looking for how to overcome them. Usually however, we don’t start looking until we have hit one and plateaued. Here are some things to note about church growth barriers:

  • They happen at typical church sizes but the exact sizes are different for every church.
  • God grows the church and in my opinion, the barriers are natural times when our church needs to change in order for God to allow us to serve more people.
  • A church may plateau or decline for other reasons. All we can do is be faithful with what we can do. Addressing every issue discussed about a specific barrier may not be the magic bullet. However, it certainly helps.

In the posts that follow I’ll share 2 great articles from Dan Reiland and Tim Keller about church growth barriers and relate them to family ministry. Before we jump into those, here are issues I see at different church sizes in regards to children’s ministry and student ministry for churches up to 2000+.

75-125

  • If you have a worship service, a solid children’s ministry is key. Ensure the primary leader is not just in that role because nobody else would do it (or because they’re married to the church planter/pastor).
  • Get a solid curriculum, like what Orange offers, to have great video components with a small group core. Provide that so leaders can focus on relationships and execution.
  • Student ministry would be too much to handle here. A small group for students with 2 great leaders would be the most I would shoot for.

200-250

  • Somebody on staff (part-time) leading children’s ministry would be typical here. They need to be get-it-done people who can also work through teams.
  • Consider going to 2 services if you can create a critical mass feel at both. This allows children’s ministry volunteers to serve and attend and creates a clear opportunity for new volunteers to step in. If you’re in one service for too long, people may never want to split into 2 services and that insider focus could prevent church growth.
  • Having 20-25 students would be typical here, and a great system would be a middle school group and a high school group, with events planned for both.

400

  • Quality and organization really begin to matter here. Systems and processes should be outlined and documented for every ministry to help empower more volunteers.
  • Assimilation begins to matter as well, as people can begin to get lost in the shuffle. Are you helping families get connected step by step?
  • Student ministry could have a large group gathering here but don’t start it unless you have the critical mass, volunteers, and can do it well. Use a solid curriculum designed for it, like XP3.

800

  • All staff must be great leaders to break through this barrier. The children’s minister or student minister who is a great talent and is good at connecting with children or students may not be the right person from here on out. They need to be an excellent recruiter, coach, and leader of volunteers. They’ll also need to be a leader of leaders, as they’ll need strong volunteer leaders on their team to make things happen.
  • Communication must be regular, consistent and in multiple formats. Both volunteers and families need communication they can rely on.
  • The student ministry large group gatherings should function at a high level with small groups and serving opportunities happening as well.

1200

  • All large group gathering events must be done really well with the clear result of helping people take steps in some way.
  • Key staff have to be leaders of leaders or the ministry they lead will be stuck.
  • The family ministry should be unified with clear transitions between environments.
  • Various events and groups should be in place to serve parents, marriages, and families in general.

2000+

  • For a while now the church staff has been teams of teams. Team leaders must be excellent leaders and managers.
  • Each ministry department with the family ministry operates like a church of 400 or 800 and the previous things apply.
  • Children and student ministry teams have to be far more creative than before. Even when using a great curriculum, allowances have to be made when you have 400-500+ kids and 200+ students.
  • If your church is multi-site you’re working with churches of multiple sizes and dealing with different barriers while keeping everything unified.

What barrier and issues are you facing?

What what you add to the list to help churches with a specific barrier?

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New Music for Preschoolers and Their Parents from Yancy

Yancy is a musician, songwriter and worship leader. She has written music and led worship for people of all ages and is behind a number of the great songs available at Amberskyrecords.com, which is the music arm of Orange. Last month Yancy released a new album specifically for preschoolers and their parents called Little Praise Party – Happy Day Everyday.

If you’re interested in getting the album or anything else from her site, you can get 25% by using this code specifically for my blog readers: nickblevinsyancy

Yancy has a specific section of her site dedicated to Ministry Resources.

A Parenting Style That Leads to Delinquent Kids?

Parents.com has a post about a study that was done analyzing about 600 middle and high school students. The purpose of the study was to determine their parenting style used in their home and how it has affected their behavior. They came up with 3 categories of parenting styles:

  • Authoritative parents are demanding and controlling but listen to their kids and are willing to explain why they do things.
  • Authoritarian parents are demanding, controlling and do not explain their reasons or give opportunities for the kids to have input.
  • Permissive parents are not controlling, set few boundaries and rarely enforce rules.

Kids with authoritarian parents were the most likely to be involved in delinquent behaviors. Authoritative parents had the best results while permissive parents were the least respected by their kids.

I’m sure we have all seen all 3 styles on display, in addition to being raised by one and/or using one at home. The results makes sense although the analytical side of me would have preferred seeing responses that included both the kids and their parents since the child’s view of their parent’s style may not be fully accurate.

Should there be any other styles?

Which style were you raised with?

Free Resource: Our Children’s Ministry Orientation Book for Volunteers #thinkorange

Some pages on my blog/website are devoted to sharing free resources. One page contains tons of free children’s ministry resources for you to download. It is made up of downloadable resources we use at Community Christian Church in children’s ministry. A new resource I just added, that we’ve actually used for a while, is our Orientation Book for volunteers. Feel free to download a copy and use it as a guide to create a similar resource for your church. Most of the resources I have available to download are made from using stuff from other churches and customizing it for our church.

Check out the Free Children’s Ministry Resources page here.

Check out this page for links to other Free Ministry Resources.

Follow Elle Campbell on Twitter to hear about a new ministry resource site they’re launching soon. (you’ll love it)

If you know of other sites that offer free children’s & student ministry resources please comment and let me know.

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