One Thing I Learned at the 2011 Orange Conference and Implemented

I have been to the Orange Conference 3 times – 2007, 2010 and 2011. This year, my favorite breakout was probably the breakout Carey Nieuwhof led on Innovative Ideas to Partner with Parents. You can read all my notes from that breakout here.

A couple years ago we reshuffled our Baby Dedication and implemented a lot of the ideas that Kendra shared about how they do BabyD at North Point. We love the Great Family Experiment idea and would love to do that as well.

This fall though, we’re implementing the Parent & Small Group Leader breakfast idea that was shared in that breakout. It’s actually an idea we heard before and had on our to-do list for well over a year but never got around to it. Attending the breakout helped, because Kenny & Elle Campbell were generous enough to package everything they used for their event to give it away to other churches. You can download it on their website: http://middleschoolshine.com/

We are planning on having our Parent & Small Group Leader breakfast (or dessert) in early November and I can’t wait. Small groups have been a huge win in our elementary environment for years and I think the relationship between a child’s small group leader and parent has the potential to be one of the greatest ways the family and church can partner together.

That’s just one of many things I’ve learned at the Orange Conference and the great network of leaders who are a part of it. I look forward to the 2012 Orange Conference and hope to see you there.

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Orange Conference 2012

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Orange Blogger Week kicks off today as registration for The 2012 Orange Conference opens this Thursday, September 22 and you can win a FREE ticket to the conference right here! All week I’ll blog about my Orange Conference thoughts and experiences.

What is the Orange Conference?Orange Conference 2012

It is the premiere gathering for church leaders in family ministry (preschool, children’s, student and senior leadership). There were nearly 5,000 people at the 2011 Orange Conference from all over the world. It is annual conference from Orange, an organization that exists to equip churches in family ministry by providing strategy, resources, curriculum and coaching.

What are the details of the Orange Conference?

Date: April 25-27, 2012
Location: Gwinnett Arena – Atlanta, GA
Cost: $239 if you register September 22
Find our more at www.theorangeconference.com

 

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Staff Structure Changes at CCC: We’re Even More Orange!

Just a few weeks ago I wrote about how important structure, particularly staff structure, is to the growth of a church. Our staff structure at Community Christian Church was recently shifted to be more prepared for future growth. As part of that shift we will now have one team for all of children’s and student ministries, comprising birth through college. Previously we had a children’s minister (me) and student minister (Ryan Arnold). The two of us worked together as much as we could on our own and had a good understanding of both ministries.

Think OrangeNow we’re on one team and I’m blessed to lead the charge for that team. We have been Orange (see whatisorange.org) in our thinking from day one in children’s and student ministry and now we get to really think orange together each week as we meet as one team. Previously our staff team all met together and now we’re moving to a team based model. Part of this move is necessary as our staff has grown and it also allows for future growth but a huge benefit is the ability for each team to have focused time together on their ministries.

I’m excited about the shift for numerous reasons, including…

  • Thinking orange as one team like I mentioned.
  • Working with our awesome team of leaders in children’s and student ministries.
  • Leveraging my strengths across children’s & student ministries and leveraging the different strengths of our team to help make everything we do from birth through college better.
  • Getting involved with student ministry. I won’t be doing anything specifically in student ministry but working with our student minister directly will allow me to be more involved. I spent 6 years volunteering about 15 hours/week in various student ministry leadership roles at the church I grew up in and I loved it.
  • Serving college-age men and women. I want to help create a culture where college-age men and women are connected with great mentors who will serve them well. That was a crucial part of my faith journey and I want everyone to have that same opportunity.

The shift included even more changes for our staff and my hope is that it will all help us serve our church and our community better.

Father’s Have Great Influence On Their Children’s Faith

Part of thinking Orange is recognizing that parents are the primary spiritual leaders of their children and the church’s job is to partner with them and help them thrive in that role. Anyone who has been around the church long enough knows that the family’s influence will trump the church’s influence 8-9 times out of 10, for good or for ill.

Something I read recently that shocked me, despite knowing what I just mentioned, was how important the father’s influence is on children’s faith. What I read was this:

“If a father does not go to church, no matter how faithful his wife’s devotions, only one child in 50 will become a regular worshipper. If a father does go regularly, regardless of the practice of the mother, between two-thirds and three-quarters of their children will become churchgoers (regular and irregular).” Source – Touch Stone Mag (I found it through the Gospel Coalition).

Now, a couple things need to be said about this study:

  • The study was done in 1994 in Switzerland. So, not only is it dated it’s also from a totally different context that I know very little about.
  • It’s based on a survey that I couldn’t find so I have no way of knowing exactly how the questions were phrased.
  • It doesn’t address, as best I can tell, the affects of not having dad around at all. Is the mom’s influence greater in those cases?

My hunch is that the results probably wouldn’t be very different here in America. That’s sobering to think about.

I grew up attending church with my mom and sister. My dad almost never came. Something else the article mentions that I think is true is that “Curiously, both adult women as well as men will conclude subconsciously that Dad’s absence indicates that going to church is not really a ‘grown-up’ activity.” I may have thought that at times but at some point Jesus, and by extension the Church, became real and important to me. From my experience I can’t say the statistic of 1 in 50 would be accurate, but even if it’s MUCH better and it’s 1 in 10, a 10% chance is not very good.

Here are my gut reactions in light of this information:

  • We need to reach the dad’s. I might start by reading Why Men Hate Going to Church (affiliate link).
  • We need to assume every kid will be the 1 in 50 if their dad is not involved. Don’t have a negative outlook.
  • We still need to think about how to serve single moms well.

What do you think? Does this seem accurate? What’s your experience? What can we do?

Planning for Ministry Growth: Programming

In ministry it’s important to plan for growth to allow growth. In this post I’ll share some thoughts and questions about how we can ensure our Programming allows for growth.

Many churches are defined by their programming. It’s easy to allow programs to define the church rather than the mission, vision and strategy. As programs dominate the church it’s harder to realize when they are actually becoming barriers to growth or when something within the program is becoming a barrier. Here are some things to think about when evaluating your programming to see if it’s a barrier to growth.

  • Does every program fit with your mission and vision? It’s easy to make almost any program sound like it lines up with the mission and vision so be watch out for where you’re making excuses.
  • Does every program fit with your strategy? This narrows it down even more. Where does this fit in your strategy? Every program takes away resources from the other programs.
  • Are there any programs where you are  experiencing huge challenges? Challenge doesn’t necessarily mean you should give it up but it may mean it’s not a good fit at the moment.
  • Are there programs you wish you didn’t have to attend? If you don’t want to attend others may not either.
  • Are all of your programs staffed (from a volunteer perspective) at least 70% of what is needed? If not, you may be spread too thin. 100% is wishful thinking, but 85-90% is great.
  • Is each program leading people to take another step in involvement or growth? Programming should lead people somewhere, not collect them.
  • Are there steps in getting involved that are too huge? A large gap could mean you’re losing people at some point in the process and they could eventually fall away all together. Be mindful of where you’re asking people to take a really big step. For instance, the step from attending a service to plugging into a small group in some one’s house is HUGE. Something in between is good.

How is your programming helping or hurting growth?

Planning for Ministry Growth: Systems

In ministry it’s important to plan for growth to allow growth. In this post I’ll share some thoughts and questions about how we can ensure our Systems allows for growth.

Andy Stanley says that systems create behaviors. Systems are the collection of processes that help lead to a desired result. In this context, talking about allowing for growth in ministry, systems are important because they can create behaviors that fuel growth or impede it. Here are some things to think about when evaluating how strong your systems are.

  • Are you aware of what your main systems are? Nelson Searcy has a free e-book on what he thinks are the 8 key systems in every church. That’s a good place to start.
  • How strong are your systems within children and student ministries? That includes systems for volunteering, programming, communication with volunteers and parents, curriculum development and implementation, partnering with parents, and leadership development? It’s a lot, I know. Email me if you want help with where to start.
  • Are your systems documented? If not, they’re hard to delegate which means it will be hard for anything to grow beyond the ability of the people who currently make it happen.
  • Are your systems consistent? You will need slightly different systems from ministry to ministry but if they’re too inconsistent, especially within a ministry, it will be confusing and impede growth.
  • Where are some behaviors happening that you applaud? You probably have a good system there, helping produce the behaviors you want. Find out what’s good about it and reproduce it elsewhere.
  • Where are some behaviors happening that you would like to change? This is a sign that a system is bad in that area. Figure out what needs to change to get the desired result.
  • Do your systems empower leaders or simply delegate tasks? If they empower leaders then you’re set for growth. If they simply delegate tasks then they will impede growth as they won’t be attractive to leaders.

Check out Tony Morgan’s 8 Characteristics of Healthy Systems for Churches for more help in this area.

How are your systems fueling or impeding growth?

Planning for Ministry Growth: Structure

In ministry it’s important to plan for growth to allow growth. In this post I’ll share some thoughts and questions about how we can ensure our Structure allows for growth.

Every church and every ministry within a church has some type of structure. Structure can limit growth or enable it. What is the structure of your staff team or ministry volunteer team? Here are some things to think about when evaluating how strong your structure is. This will relate to staffing and volunteer structures.

  • Is anyone responsible for directly leading more than 5-6 staff? That’s not a magic number, but if someone is, they may be limiting growth because of how much has to go through them unless they don’t have many other responsibilities.
  • Is a volunteer responsible for directly leading more than 15-20 volunteers? Even 15 is high unless the volunteer leader is giving over 5 hours/week to the role. If anyone has to lead too many people, none of them are cared for well.
  • Can you easily describe your staff structure or would staff even have a hard time figuring out how it works? If it’s complex, it is a growth barrier. The larger the organization the more complex it can become.
  • Do you have an organizational chart? Not just for staff, but for each ministry? If not, you might be like Moses. An org chart clearly defines your structure and lets volunteers see opportunities where they could step up and lead.
  • Is it clear who is responsible for everything the church does? If everyone owns it, nobody does.
  • Do you develop volunteer structures that would work as staff structures? Part of thinking big is planning for what would happen if some of those key volunteer roles were staff roles because they needed more hours to get it done.
  • Does information flow throughout the organization well? Ask people at the “bottom” rungs for an honest assessment.
  • Does seniority drive your structure? If so, you might not have the best talent and competency in key positions.
  • Does your strategy drive your structure or are they misaligned? You should have staff and volunteers in positions that line up with your strategy.

What would you add?

In Ministry It’s Important to Plan for Growth to Allow Growth

Our church meets in a 24/7 leased office space in the middle of a business park. Around lunch time there’s a guy who pulls up in a truck with his portable hot dog stand and he sells hot dogs and other lunch items to people who work around here. His sign reads “International Hot Dog Stand” or something like that. It’s a trailer, hooked to a truck, that probably breaks down often but it’s….International. Unless he drives that bad boy to Canada it’s hardly International. I don’t think the hot dogs are what’s international either. He’s thinking big.

In ministry it’s important to think big as well, and plan for growth if we want to allow growth. That’s true in all organizations but everything in church world will naturally fight to keep us small. However, our our mission is to make disciples of all nations. No limit there. If we don’t plan for growth before the growth occurs, it may not happen because of the barriers we leave in place. God is responsible for the growth and we shouldn’t get in the way.

When we don’t plan for growth we put up barriers all over the place. In the next few posts I’ll share some questions that can help us figure out how well we’re planning for growth or if we’re putting up barriers. The focus will be on our structure, our systems and our programming. All of that comes after we have a solid mission, vision and strategy but the barriers show up more in structure, systems and programming.

New Website for @Ken_Patterson is Up – Do You Need a Website for Your Church or Blog?

One of the things I do to help churches and church leaders is build websites. The cost of a custom website built on a content management system (CMS) can be extremely high, like as little as $1000 and as much as $5000 or more. By focusing on what I can do well (development & customization) and using great resources and contacts for what I don’t do well (design), I can build websites for a fraction of the usual cost.

I just finished up a blog design and install for Ken Patterson. Ken is a church planter and pastor here in Baltimore with Grace International Church. Below is a snapshot of the site. Click the image to see more. It runs on WordPress and is powered by the amazing Standard Theme.

If you need a website created/re-designed, click here to see if I can help.

The Real Ken Patterson Website and Blog

Don’t Believe the Statistics About Marriage

Christians should fight for their marriages. Churches and children’s ministries should help parents fight for their marriages while also serving divorced couples and single parents well. But, churches may be working under bad assumptions.

In church circles you commonly hear that the divorce rate among Christians is as high as the divorce rate among non-Christians, both being 50%. The problem with that statistic, and many like it, is that there is a huge difference between those who claim to be Christian and those who live it out at least to some degree. Only a few questions have to be asked to begin to see the difference.

Earlier this year the Baptist Press found that of those who identify themselves as Christians but don’t attend church regularly, 60% have been divorced. Of those who who attend regularly, that drops to 38%.

This weekend the Wall Street Journal stated that according to recent Census data, 77% of couples who married since 1990 have reached their 10 year anniversary. There was no mention of how many of them divorced after that, however.

How much, if at all, does this affect church’s approach to serving married couples?

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