In this episode, I talk with TJ McConohay about the things that helped grow a student ministry beyond 10% of the overall attendance in his church. He also shares some best practices for connecting with youth through social media and how to increase attendance through specific incentives and events.
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Episode Notes
Thoughts on relational and pastoral leadership that builds trust:
- Let youth stay as long as they want after service
- Be prepared to stick around for the kids who “need” a place
- Recruit volunteers who will stick with you
Thoughts on the programming for youth ministry:
- Program is not above anything
- Program is only as good as the people you have trust in
- Don't get married to programs (because the relational aspect changes as culture changes)
- Good coaches lead based on the team they have, not constantly changing their team to fit their system/program
- Start with the students, then build the program
- Don't get insecure about the numbers… everyone should look at the numbers
- What are numbers? Numbers are accountability
- Not all growth is healthy
- Some growth is toxic
- Hold yourself accountable to the numbers
- Don't get insecure with down nights, and don't become inflated with big nights
- Understand that your ministry/church is constantly changing
- You should know where your “healthy” range is (by percentage)
- Attendance drives
- A few times a year, incentivize numbers/attendance
- Offer a special night based on an attendance record
- Plan for them during natural dips/events throughout the year
Thoughts on ministering to students through social media:
- Mindset: connect with kids even if they don't attend the youth ministry
- Do not bank on being present on school campuses
- Focus on the power of the invite
- Stop thinking about youth ministry within the walls of the church
- Don't mention “what was talked about in youth group”
- Try not to make it exclusive for those who have attended
- IT MUST BE DONE – you must meet them where they live on social media
- Most teens spend 6 hours a day on a screen
- Thought: if you knew students spent 6-8 hours at the mall every single day, wouldn't you show up to connect with them?
Action Items
- Attendance drive (public attendance goal)
- Try TikTok – or some other channel
- Come up with new/different metrics to track
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